Monday, July 31, 2006

Ruffled Feathers

Some unwelcomed and unwarranted comments on Lilian's and Wingz blogs ruffled more than a few feathers. I think these has happened more often than anyone would bother to remember but it sure does not make it any more acceptable or palatable.

I don't really know what went through those commentators' minds when they posted in their comments. Did they honestly think and believe that their comments were constructive, mind-blowing, helpful, cute and funny? Well, that commentator might actually believe so and therefore treated the comments-box as a free-for-all 'Peti Cadangan'. But this does not mean that they can just hop in to someone's blog and just pee and shit everywhere and spit their vile venom. It is just like visiting someone's house uninvited and then start to complain about everything and anything and everyone and also start teaching the host how to run her home, how to groom herself, partake of the food and then spit out violently the partly-ingested morsels. Personally, I always believe that no matter how close you think you are to a particular friend or relative, it is always wise not to test the friendship or kinship and overstep the boundaries, however blur they may be. Some even go to the host's house just to quarrel with some other visitors there. How crass and lame can that be! A blog, to me, is akin to an open house and visitors are welcomed but a certain amount of decorum would be expected of them. Common sense and common courtesy should prevail but then again, as we hear so often, they are NOT so common after all.

As I have written in my earlier post, I find blogging thereupatic. I enjoy reading down-to-earth blogs that I can relate to, heartwarming and uplifting ones to motivate and inspire me and of course, my daily dose includes hilarious entries too. I get more than enough of my share of stress elsewhere already and no, thanks, I don't look for more in blogosphere.
 
posted by nyonyapenang at 9:08 AM, |

20 Comments:

  At 8:32 PM Blogger Helen said:
I think some people are just plain unkind. Summore internet and blog comments enable the freedom of anonymity without the burden of responsibility.

I guess some people just can't handle that. But, in real life, I doubt they dare to spit out anything remotely what they put into ppl's blog face to face.
  At 9:17 PM Blogger sotongking said:
sometimes it's fun to have tis kind of ppl around. it realli spice things up.no?
  At 10:13 PM Blogger angel said:
ditto helen che's comment ;)

sometimes some ppl just kenot tahan some ppl, u know what i mean?
easy. just delete those comments. but of course as blog admin, we sometimes just want to keep them for a while to show what kind of upbringing some of our fellow humans are brought up on.
helen,
lidat very rude lor.

sotongking,
too spicy, then too hot to handle later. :D

angel,
this beh tahan, that beh khua. lidat got problem ledi.

las montanas,
ya, no need to lose sleep over that hor?
  At 9:19 AM Blogger Ah Pek said:
yalah.. there are always smart alecs out there who thinks they are so clever. they go and shit in people's blog but don't have the balls to start their own one.
  At 12:46 PM Blogger AceOne said:
I agreed wat you said nyonyapenang. I seconded.!!
ah pek,
semua tu kita tak usah peduli.
give them enough rope, they might just hang themselves.

aceone,
i know you are sensible mia. ;)
  At 1:20 PM Blogger sotongking said:
They'r just looking for a fight. Ignore them like they'r invisible. Dun reply their comments,just delete n pretend nothing happened. Hah! see how long they can keep on shitting.
sotongking,
i think that fella lau sai at wingz blog again. salah makan ke?
  At 3:22 AM Anonymous Anonymous said:
People living in glass houses should not throw stones. Lilian is equally as unkind and even more cruel with some of her blogs and comments. Both should learn to take as much as they give. Plus the profanities are beyond description on these two blogs when both have such young children. Especially Lilian who claims she is a Christian and then goes and swears in front of her kids and for the whole world to read, what example is she? Then you criticise the sort of people out there who are unkind and gila but ppl like Lilian is the gila one.....no motherly or godly examples who is conceited.
Lilian should stop talking about God and claiming her change in outlook to life but on the other hand, the swear words she uses is not of God and using God's name in vain.

Exodus 20:7 You should not take the name of your God in vain.

Lilian should wake up to herself. No harm writing what she wants but don't profess to be a Christian but not live the life of one. She is allowing the devil to shame God. Someone who is truly saved and has the Holy Spirit in her would be more discerning which Lilian is not. It would be interesting to see if her priest of the church knows what she writes and the words she chooses to use.
dear anonymouse,
if you have something to say to lilian, kindly visit her.
terima kasih
  At 8:47 AM Anonymous suituapui said:
Bravo! Bravo! I agree with u 100%. Visit, see post, interesting...comment, not interesting...just leave! Why create havoc? BTW, I like ur template...looks nostalgic, real nyonya-like! I think it reflects your good taste (and I'm not just saying it to please you!)
Wakahkahkah!!!!
suituapui,
welcome!
thanks for the kind words.

5Xmom
farny hor?
hahahaha......
  At 2:07 PM Blogger sotongking said:
Wow...tat bugger sounds like preacher/monk.
  At 2:53 PM Anonymous Anonymous said:
I am commenting here because your post relates to them and talking about silly people commenting and therefore my comments is based on your post.
If you are able to post, you are able to read other people's point of view relating to this post.
Don't be afraid to give your point of you and not receive other's.
This is life in the blogging world.
sotongking,
i dunno wor. i today blur-sotong abit.
hahahaha

dear anonymouse,
i think living in what house oso better not throw stones. sometimes the stones may hit something else and just 'boomerang' back.
terima kasih
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