Merepek

Some unwelcomed and unwarranted comments on Lilian's and Wingz blogs ruffled more than a few feathers. I think these has happened more often than anyone would bother to remember but it sure does not make it any more acceptable or palatable.

I don't really know what went through those commentators' minds when they posted in their comments. Did they honestly think and believe that their comments were constructive, mind-blowing, helpful, cute and funny? Well, that commentator might actually believe so and therefore treated the comments-box as a free-for-all 'Peti Cadangan'. But this does not mean that they can just hop in to someone's blog and just pee and shit everywhere and spit their vile venom. It is just like visiting someone's house uninvited and then start to complain about everything and anything and everyone and also start teaching the host how to run her home, how to groom herself, partake of the food and then spit out violently the partly-ingested morsels. Personally, I always believe that no matter how close you think you are to a particular friend or relative, it is always wise not to test the friendship or kinship and overstep the boundaries, however blur they may be. Some even go to the host's house just to quarrel with some other visitors there. How crass and lame can that be! A blog, to me, is akin to an open house and visitors are welcomed but a certain amount of decorum would be expected of them. Common sense and common courtesy should prevail but then again, as we hear so often, they are NOT so common after all.

As I have written in my earlier post, I find blogging thereupatic. I enjoy reading down-to-earth blogs that I can relate to, heartwarming and uplifting ones to motivate and inspire me and of course, my daily dose includes hilarious entries too. I get more than enough of my share of stress elsewhere already and no, thanks, I don't look for more in blogosphere.